For men · who's actually in your corner
The men who'd pick up.
Make sure you still call them.
A private list of the men in your support system — brother, old mate, sponsor, coach. Set a rough rhythm, tap when you've actually spoken, and let the list tell you when it's been too long.
- 3 names
- enough to start
- 1 tap
- to log a catch-up
- Private
- yours alone
It just gets quiet.
The mission
To improve men's mental health by encouraging men to consistently connect with and support one another.
Core belief
You don't have to go through life alone. But you do have to pick up the phone.
How it works
Three names. A rhythm. A nudge before it goes quiet.
- 01
Write down the men
Not everyone you've ever met. The ones you'd actually ring at 11pm — a brother, an old mate, a sponsor, the bloke from work who doesn't flinch.
- 02
Set a rhythm
Weekly for the ones you lean on, monthly for the ones you mean to call. Your call — the point is that silence becomes visible instead of normal.
- 03
Log when you speak
One tap after a real conversation. When it's been too long he moves to the top of the list, and you get a reason to send the message.
What your corner looks like
The ones you keep meaning to ring.
Three names is a full list to start with. Tap once when you've spoken and the clock resets — no journalling, no follow-up questions, no group chat to keep up with.
Example circle — sample content
Your corner · 3 men
2 ready for a call
- DDaveBrotherTalked 4 days ago · every two weeksIn rhythm
- CCamOld mateTalked 23 days ago · monthlyReach out
- AAdeWork mateNo conversation logged yetReach out
Straight about what this is.
What it is
- A private list of the men you'd actually call
- A rhythm you set yourself — weekly, monthly, whatever fits
- One tap to log a real conversation, so the silence shows up
- Built to stop men disappearing quietly and calling it fine
What it isn't
- Therapy, diagnosis, or a replacement for a professional
- A contacts app, a CRM or another group chat to keep up with
- A mood diary, habit streak or gratefulness prompt
- A place that will tell you you're fine when you're not
Start with three names. Not a whole address book.
Free to start. A couple of minutes to set up your circle, then it's just a note of when you last spoke.